The fear of rejection could overwhelm and paralyze most guys.
Being rejected makes us feel worthless and unwanted. I know because I’ve been rejected many times, and it felt like shit. Because of this paralyzing fear, most guys end up not making any moves to woo the girl they like at all.
But if you don’t take any actions, how are you going to know the outcome? If you don’t take any actions, pretty soon, the girl that you like will end up in some other guy’s arms instead. And worst of all, that guy could be a jerk!
Rejection happens to everyone
Listen. Rejection happens to everybody. Even the most good looking and successful guy gets rejected. You see, you may not like every girl you meet, and not every girl you meet is going to like you. That’s just how life works.
Of course, there are steps you can take to improve your chances of getting a girl to go out with you. You can try to dress better, improve your conversation skills, learn the secrets of approaching and flirting with women, etc. But like it or not, you’re gonna have to face rejections.
Don’t take rejection seriously
The right way to handle rejection is to not take it seriously and personally. There could be a lot of reasons why a girl may turn you down. She could be having a bad day, she could be involved with someone else already, she could still be bitter about bad past experiences, she may be biased toward guys with dark hair, small eyes, or she just doesn’t know you enough yet.
Regardless, just don’t take it too seriously. Don’t get offended and start behaving like a child or lose control of yourself. And most importantly, don’t start acting desperate and begin to do creepy things like stalking her.
If you get rejected by the same girl once, try a few more times. If it doesn’t work out, just wish her the best and move on. There are lots of fish in the sea!
Just remember that a confident man knows his worth and knows when to walk away. By walking away, you demonstrate that you respect her decision and also you’re confident to go after another girl that’s more worthy of your attention.