No matter how the dating dynamics have changed, most women still appreciate men that have good manners and etiquette. Having good manners and etiquette is what separates the gentlemen women admire and respect vs. the average guys.
Unfortunately, most men still lack basic manners and etiquette in social settings. Sometimes, you can leave a strong impression on people just by the way you carry yourself and how you treat other people.
If you carry yourself with class and sophistication, soon, every person you meet will want to hook you up with their cute looking friend or relative. You can bank on this!
The following is a list of do’s and don’ts when it comes to proper dating etiquette. Practice these every time you go out or every time you are in the company of others. Eventually, it becomes a habit, and it will come naturally for you.
1. Show up on time — and text if you’re going to be late
Being late is rude and disrespectful to the other person’s time. However, if there’s a valid reason such as traffic or an accident, call/text your date immediately to inform her.
2. Don’t talk about your ex-girlfriends
No matter how you feel about your exes, refrain from talking about past relationships. Most people don’t actually care to know, especially at the beginning.
3. Offer to pay on the first date
Since you’re the one asking the other person out, it’s a gentlemanly gesture to offer to pay on the first date. So pick a place that is appropriate for your budget.
4. Dress appropriately and smell good
No matter the place you’re going to, make sure you put in the efforts to dress appropriately, look presentable, and smell fresh and clean. It would be a good idea to allocate enough time for you to get ready also.
5. Do not use vulgar language
Cursing and using vulgar language is a major turn-off for most women. It can make you come off as uneducated and low-class to some people. So while it’s ok to use the “F” word around your guy buddies, you should watch your language when you’re on a first date with a girl you like.
6. Give your date 100% of your attention
By giving 100% of your attention to your date, you make her feel special and important.
Be sure to turn off your cell phone. It’s quite annoying to have a fine dinner and conversation interrupted by you picking up your cell phone and texting or chatting away with your buddy. Also, refrain from checking out other women in your surroundings, even if you happen to spot a hot looking girl somewhere in the room.
7. Avoid talking about politics, religion, or anything sensitive and controversial
Politics and religion are sensitive topics that could ruin a nice date. You’d want to be laughing and having a good time during your dates, not arguing and debating over issues you feel strongly about. Save that for later.
8. Do not brag about your accomplishments
A confident person doesn’t need to lie or brag about his accomplishments, how much money he makes, etc. Modesty, honesty, and humility are quite sexy.
9. Be a gentleman
A gentleman opens the doors for your date, pulls the chair for her, makes sure she safely gets into her house first before you drive away, and makes sure your date always feels comfortable at ease.
10. Avoid negative talk
People are naturally drawn to positive people. If you say negative things about someone or something, you send out bad vibes, and it could turn people off.